Who versus Whom: When to use which

Honestly, I’m one of those people: I simply  avoid having to write or use whom. I do conduct a “meaningful, productive life without whom.” :)

Thanks to Grammarly, I’m gaining the confidence to use whom.

Here’s a great tip on when to use who and whom:

Use the Pronoun Switch Method.

If you can answer the question with the pronouns him or her, use whom.

If you can answer the question with the pronouns he or her, use who.

Use the pronouns he, she, him, and her to help you decide. If he or she makes sense in the sentence, use who. If him or her makes sense, use whom.


To whom are you submitting the report? I am submitting the report to her.

Who is going to the museum? He is going to the museum.

The woman, for whom the song was written, was blushing as the song’s first verse played.

The song was written for her, the woman who was blushing as the song’s first verse played.

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The Stress-Free Calaguas Beach Getaway


Step 1: Join a package tour group. DIY trips are for responsible people who do their homework. For the rest of us people who wouldn’t be bothered, get a tour operator. Harhar!

Step 2: Endure the 8-hour land trip and the 2-hour boat ride.

Step 3: Swim, eat, drink, sleep to your heart’s content! Relax and enjoy!


My friends and I booked the Calaguas package of Sandtoes Travel for 2 days and 1 night for PhP3,500 per person.

The package includes:
–  All Camp Meals
        * 3 meals for 2d/1n
        * Day 2 (for 2d/1n guest) lunch is optional. Should you want to include meal package just add PhP100.
– Tent Accommodation
– Jeep pick-up from drop-off point to port of  Vinzons and vice versa
– Roundtrip boat transfers
– Guide fee
– Entrance fee at Mahabang Buhangin
– Environmental fee P20/person


Day 0
Assembly at Cubao bus terminal before 9:00pm. Other pick-up points are at Pasay, Alabang, and Turbina. Just coordinate with the tour operator.

9:00pm ETD from Cubao, Quezon City to Daet, Camarines Norte

6:00am ETA in Daet, Camarines Norte
7:00am Breakfast (customer’s own account)
8:00am Go to Vinzons port, ride a boat to Calaguas Island
10:00am ETA Mahabang Buhangin, Calaguas Island
12:00nn  Lunch (camping meal 1)
02:00pm Swimming, free time
7:00pm Dinner (camping meal 2)
9:00pm Mobile Bar: drink all you can! (No extra fee; it’s part of the package but not advertised as such.)
12:00am Lights Out

7:00am Breakfast (camping meal 3)
11:00 am ETD at Calaguas Island
1:00pm ETA Vinzons port, ride jeep to Bagasbas
2:00pm ETA Bagasbas, free time, late lunch (meal 4 –we got this for free)
Optional: Surfing (different charges for the instructor and  rentals)
8:00pm ETD Daet to Manila
5:00am ETA Manila

Travel dates: May 22-24, 2015


1. If you have motion sickness, drink Bonamine — not for the boat ride, but for the bus ride. I was warned that the boat ride would be hell, but thank goodness, the sea was very calm on the day of our trip. I wasn’t expecting the bus ride before that to be so horrible. What you have to prepare for are the winding roads leading up to Daet. I was clammy and woosy by the time we arrived in Daet.

2. Upon arrival in Daet, you’ll be dropped off to have breakfast at a hotel (on your account, not part of the package). A meal of 1 cup rice, fried egg, 3-in-1 instant coffee, and 1 kind of meat (tocino, longganisa, beef tapa, hotdog, fried chicken, or pork chop) costs PhP100. You don’t have to eat at this hotel. If you fancy McDonalds, there’s one a short walking distance from the hotel. McDonalds has pancakes and brewed coffee at a fraction of the hotel food’s cost.

3. An hour or so after dinner on Day 1, they will open the bar. Gather around and take advantage of the free cocktails. Enjoy!

4. On the island, there are public bathrooms/toilets. Lots of water, thanks to the deep wells. You’ll surely put your upper body strength to good use. Taking a bath could be a challenge because of the cramped space, so bring a large plastic bag which you could sling or hook onto the door and where you could keep your towel and your change of clothes.

5. There’s a beginner’s hiking trail on a hill very near the campsite. It’s private property so they do charge an entrance fee of PhP50. It’s a nice way to see Mahabang Buhangin from a different perspective. Plus, the hike burns calories.

6. Best Experience: Deep into the night, open up the top part of your tent. Ours had a zipper and hood on top. It was 2:00am, the entire island was dark and quiet, and the stars in the sky were AMAZING. I’ve never seen so many bright  stars. It was absolutely breathtaking.









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Why “The Electrical Engineer” magazine almost made me cry


The Electrical Engineer

How could IIEE‘s magazine for electrical engineers make me so emotional? Funny, but true. I was teary eyed when I recently received from the mail this magazine with the blazing orange cover. It was my father’s. It was the remainder of his magazine subscription; the sticker label said so. It was a small part of him that I could hold on to long after he had gone.

Next month (September 30) will be his first death anniversary. The subscription would have ended by then, but he will still live on, my father the engineer. He is and will forever be missed in our family — my father, my inspiration.

It’s no coincidence I’m working in a place surrounded by engineers. I wanted to be here. I chose to be here. I wanted to be like my father. It’s my source of pride that I stubbornly did not study to become an engineer (as both my parents secretly hoped, but then math happened), yet somehow I ended up here in the electric power industry doing something else that I love.

I may not have an “Engr.” title affixed to my name, but I am happy learning and just being in the company of amazing people who worked hard to earn that title. Just to be clear, there are hundreds more in the corporation who are non-engineers, but they work just as hard and are just as amazing.

But these engineers, they are at the heart of NGCP’s operations, and a big part of what I do at work is learning from these experts and trying to communicate to different audiences how they operate the power grid. After so many years, I’m still trying to learn as much as I can. It’s a never-ending challenging experience to work here.

So now, as I leaf through “The Electrical Engineer” — my father’s last subscription — even the long technical articles seem strangely comforting, the transmission industry stories especially so. The words read familiar and feel just like home. I finally understand that it’s true: home is where my heart is.

(first published in The Weekly GRID, 10 August 2015)

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